Nature’s Healing Power

Many years ago, I went to a collegial gathering in a beautiful retreat centre by the ocean. Our time together was meant to be a time of peace and renewal – a getaway from all the stresses and strains of ministry. But the day before I was to depart, I received the most devastating news imaginable – a terrible, terminal diagnosis of someone very dear to me.     (I want to add that at the time, the diagnosis was a certain death sentence, but incredibly, medical science caught up and today they are still alive and well and making a wonderful  contribution to this world. But of course, I had no way of knowing that back then.)  

I remember feeling overcome with anticipatory grief which I had little desire to share with colleagues. Despondent, I took myself to the water’s edge early in the morning for a long solitary walk by the sea to try and come to terms with what likely lay ahead. The beach in the early morning light was beautiful and after a while in deep contemplation, I raised my head to look around me at what the ocean had washed up on the shore. 

There were plenty of starfish and sea crabs scuttling back to the water along with a variety of birds fishing, bathing and soaring above my head. On closer inspection I could see so many forms of life in the water, on the sand and in the air. Some were sea creatures that days before, must have ventured too close to the shore and were now in the process of dying. I threw some back but knew it was too late for most. All manner of aquatic plants were thriving in the sea, and some were washed up on shore, drying in the sun. And of course, there were many gorgeous shells which once had housed life and were now simply a beautiful reminder of the creatures that once inhabited them.   

In beholding all this, it occurred to me that in nature’s healing hands, all forms of life and all stages of being, dying and being re-born were present and spread out before me. Life emerging, life thriving and life dying. Eggs, seeds, brand new life and the breakdown of what were once the bodies of myriad creatures; tiny fragile plants and the majestic sculpture of driftwood that years before, began life as a sapling and ended its life as a magnificent tree.   

It came to me as I was standing there surveying the wash of being born, living and dying, that death is not outside the cycle of life. It’s not an aberration, it’s a certainty. Every being, indeed, every form of life on our beloved planet, has a finite existence, a span of life, whether short or long, after which we are no more. Although I knew this intellectually, seeing it displayed in nature spread out before my feet was in some ways the most comforting ‘message’ I could have been given. Death is not outside the circle of life. 

Of course, death that is sudden, tragic, violent or before life’s natural span is certainly hardest to accept. The deaths of the young, death that comes without warning, death that is accidental, the result of negligence or malfeasance, is deliberately caused or self-chosen seem to defy the natural order and take tremendous effort to reconcile. But even for these most painful of losses, nature can offer solace, perspective and hope. 

A well-known study discovered that in shared hospital rooms, the patient closest to the window got well faster, and people in single rooms with a beautiful view of nature from their bed needed less pain medication, had shorter stays and less post-surgical complications than those looking at a brick wall or another part of the building.  

In my ministry practice, for years I have led simple ‘walking meditations’ in the forest. Since the trees, flowers and plants give us oxygen, when we breathe, we ‘breathe in gratitude’ saying, “Thank you.” When we breathe out, we give them the carbon dioxide they need, so we breathe out blessing saying, “Bless you.” This simple “Thank you/Bless you” meditation reminds us of our connection to all life and can be practiced anywhere. 

And like many who grieve, I have found being in nature an essential part of the path to healing. Seeing the entire span of our own lives in the way the sun bestows light upon us every morning and in the evening graces us with beautiful pink and golden rays of memory to carry with us into the night. Being amazed at how tiny sunflower seeds planted in the spring by my husband grew to delight me with their height and beauty the summer after he passed. Immersing myself in as many bodies of water as possible all summer long and feeling newly re-born. Planting bulbs in autumn with the belief that you will feel better by the time tiny shoots and blossoms show their faces. Even winter with its cozy times by the fire, soothed by warm drinks and memories brings comfort, knowing that seasons of rest and seeming death will give way to life in time. 

To be of the Earth is to know
the restlessness of being a seed
the darkness of being planted
the struggle toward the light
the pain of growth into the light
the joy of bursting and bearing fruit
the love of being food for someone
the scattering of your seeds
the decay of the seasons
the mystery of death and
the miracle of birth.

 – John Soos                                                                              

In nature, we see all life’s lessons reflected to us, the circle of day into night and the seasonal trip around the sun, and all remind us of our place in the natural cycle of life.  

I want to be
like dandelions
growing through concrete

I want to be
that determined to live
so sure of myself

I send my roots
under hard, unyielding
endless expanses
in the dark

certain that one day
a crack will appear
and I will grow
toward the light

and surprise everyone
with my beauty

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